The Wounded Heart, by Dr. Dan Allender
This is an excellent book and we highly recommend it to any adult that is dealing with childhood sexual abuse. The book is also very good for spouses who want to understand "why" the abused person thinks and acts like they do. The book is primarily written for the woman who has been abused, but men will be able to learn things also. If you can only read one book, you should read Allender's The Wounded Heart.
Caring for Sexually Abused Children, Dr. R. Timothy Kearney
This is a great book for the parent that has just discovered their child has been the victim of sexual abuse. It includes chapters on: "What happens next?", "What about therapy?", "Why does God Let this Happen?", and "How does God Bring Healing?".
Mending the Soul: Understanding and Healing Abuse, by Dr. Steven R. Tracy.
A great book about how an abused person views life. The book covers not only sexual abuse, but also verbal, physical and spiritual abuse. A must read for anyone who is dealing with an abuse victim.